Second Date Advice: What you need to know to be successful
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Second Date Advice: So you’ve made it through the first date, but aren’t quiet sure what to do on the second? Then pay attention…

Giving you second date advice will allow you to smoothly move from the first date to the second date. Let’s face it, when you leave the first date with a potential partner, you’re usually in one of two categories… Super excited to go, thinking, “I’m not quite good enough for that person.” OR questioning whether you should call it quits all together.

My second date advice starts with this number one tip… DO NOT compromise. Do not settle to do something on your second date that you wouldn’t do with a group of friends or on your own.

The goal of the second date is to find common ground with this person who has your attention. If you treat dating similar to a job interview, you could use the second date as a platform for finding your right match with out overlooking your standards.

If you’re in the place where you aren’t sure if this person should even get a second date my advice is to give it a shot. When you’re on the fence with a person I always advise to give them the benefit of the doubt. You should know, not everyone will be completely confident and comfortable on the first date with you. Therefore, if your first date isn’t a DEFINITE NO, I invite you to consider giving that person a second chance. And to look at your second date as an opportunity to see if it is a DEFINITE NO or if there is the potential for a fit.